Re: Flouncing - What’s it all about
Originally Posted by
DWebb
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Flouncing is something I see in most forums but there seems to be an awful lot of it in this particular forum. What is it all about? Is it just a cry for attention from people who think they are not getting enough attention / respect? I have always believed if you really want to leave a forum then you just do it, you stop posting, people who announce they are leaving invariably come back pretty damn quick.
Have you ever flounced? Was it a cry for attention or were you serious about quitting?
I don't flounce, I don't see the point.
I also don't see the point in getting so wound up on a forum that flouncing/leaving becomes an option.
It's the internet, it's not real. You have the option of an off button, use it!
I quite regularly take internet breaks as sometimes it starts to get on my nerves and I find myself becoming too invested in some things.
But I don't make a fuss about it, I just do it.
As for those that have had admin "beg" them to stay....that, to me, is a really bad move on admins part. No one person is bigger or more important than the forum and nobody should be made to feel they are.
A PM to say ....sorry you feel like this, the door is always open for you to return....would be sufficient.
And now I'm logging off to watch telly, but it ain't a flounce