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06-01-2017, 11:16 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

Don't think it bothers me or my husband we both have friends the other doesn't know about, it's competely platonic and we trust each other so what's to be worried about ?
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06-01-2017, 11:16 PM
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It is well known I am anti PM, clarity prevails for the world, let alone the other half.
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06-01-2017, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Julie1962 ->
Don't think it bothers me or my husband we both have friends the other doesn't know about, it's competely platonic and we trust each other so what's to be worried about ?
It was specifically saying about the other half "hiding" friendships from the other and then the other finding out ....I think the hiding part was where things became a little shaky
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06-01-2017, 11:20 PM
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I don't think online chatting, sharing jokes, thoughts, and opinions etc is a wrong at all, but it would be a different kettle of fish if people with partners actually met up ( one-to-one) with someone, and weren't open about it to their partners IMO.
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06-01-2017, 11:20 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

Originally Posted by Aysa ->
It was specifically saying about the other half "hiding" friendships from the other and then the other finding out ....I think the hiding part was where things became a little shaky
It's not hiding exactly but we discourage each other from meeting them is what I mean.
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06-01-2017, 11:21 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

Originally Posted by Mups ->
I don't think online chatting, sharing jokes, thoughts, and opinions etc is a wrong at all, but it would be a different kettle of fish if people with partners actually met up ( one-to-one) with someone, and weren't open about it to their partners.
Mups ofc but online chatting sharing jokes and thoughts and opinions wernt mentioned in the debate...just the fact of hiding friendships from their other halves..ofc we can all have online friends and chats and thoughts and jokes
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06-01-2017, 11:23 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

Originally Posted by Julie1962 ->
It's not hiding exactly but we discourage each other from meeting them is what I mean.
Julie why would you discourage your partner or hubby from meeting your friends?
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06-01-2017, 11:26 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

What's ofc?
What are you meaning as a 'friendship' exactly ?

Have I got the wrong end of the stick?
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06-01-2017, 11:27 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

Originally Posted by Aysa ->
Julie why would you discourage your partner or hubby from meeting your friends?
Because he wouldn't like them just as I wouldn't like his.
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06-01-2017, 11:30 PM
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Re: Hiding friendships

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What's ofc?
What are you meaning as a 'friendship' exactly ?

Have I got the wrong end of the stick?
Ofc = Of course

It was just a friendship that was being hidden Mups with a friend of the opposite sex.....you may be able to catch up with the program and see it ...its probably on catch up online ...its on channel 5 try here if you like Mups...

http://www.channel5.com/show/the-wright-stuff
 
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