02-03-2018, 12:42 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Aerolor
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I try to be fairly calculating in how I handle and respond to conflict. If I get annoyed at something, I sit and wait a little while. If I find I am still annoyed after having waited and nobody else has responded, I gather my thoughts together and then march into battle. Quite often 'though I find most things are not worth the effort of any detailed reply. Life really is too short and I know that it is not possible for people on forums to know who or what we really are - therefore, I think the vast majority of responses can only be given and taken on a superficial level.
02-03-2018, 12:46 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Morticia
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I'd say just to anyone , say what you think.You might not be liked for it at the time but at least you are been true to yourself and giving an honest opinion.
Folk know where they stand with you and either love you or loathe you for it.
For some who prefer a quieter experience on the web it can come more natural to be more of a spectator, which doesn't mean they having nothing to say .... they are just more discriminating at what, how or when they say it.
Or more likely curling up with shocked horror or having a fit of giggles over the antics of braver, rasher or dafter souls who haunt social sites.
Each to their own.
We're all different personalities but over the years I have come to the conclusion you have to develop a thick skin.
Thank you Mort
02-03-2018, 12:46 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by wild blueberry
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Morticia.....this post from you means so much to me. You have no idea!! We did get off on the wrong foot, and I am so happy that you suggest we put the new foot forward. I am sorry for everything hurtful I said to you. Thank you Morti.
Good to see you feel more settled and good for you for starting this thread. That takes a bit of courage.
02-03-2018, 12:51 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Artangel
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Hey, Bluey, All this thanking everyone.....You’re not at the Oscars, you know!! 
02-03-2018, 12:58 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Morticia
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No need to apologise or thank me unless you accept likewise from me ... we both said some nasty things to each other which didn't make either of us look good.Good to see you feel more settled and good for you for starting this thread. That takes a bit of courage.
. I have been tossing it around in my head since yesterday. I didn't want to look stupid, but I did want to find a way to improve myself. I knew I needed your help and the others too. I feel like things are going to sink in this little peanut I have for a brain, and I will be a good member here. Sometimes it is hard for us to look at ourselves to see where we are going wrong.....
02-03-2018, 01:12 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Tpin
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There's only one way, IMHO. Head on.....A chat, cards on the table and if a reasonable outcome isn't possible then a swift kick in the nutellas......so to speak.
02-03-2018, 01:13 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Morticia
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I never fancied nutella ..too many bits get stuck in my teeth.
02-03-2018, 01:18 AM
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Re: How do you handle conflict?
Originally Posted by Rehab44
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Like I said earlier..eloquent, in another age and time you would have been Shakespeare
Too many an hour spent trying to convince the upper echelons they know ****.
Bloomin site managers.
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