Re: Forgive and forget, or bear a grudge?
This is a difficult question because it depends on the situation, your time in life, your health etc. You might bear a grudge when young, but when you have other problems or ill health you may realise that life is too short to waste it thinking about negative individuals who have hurt you.Re: Forgive and forget, or bear a grudge?
I think that many of the nasty comments, actions, are rooted in Jealousy.Re: Forgive and forget, or bear a grudge?
For the minor disagreements in life then move on, it's just not worth it. For the more major emotional or psychological situations, where perhaps someone does something that is personally hurtful and offends in a major way that may be classed as 'unforgivable', then it should be realised by harbouring that as a grudge can do untold damage to the 'hurt' or 'offended' party. It can easily turn to bitterness which can negatively affect a person emotionally and physically.Re: Forgive and forget, or bear a grudge?
Re: Forgive and forget, or bear a grudge?
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