Re: Women in frontline combat role
Originally Posted by
Antibrown
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I have no qualms with women and men being equal, doing the same things but I think that many women would like their man to be more the Neanderthal type, doing the heavy serious work and the women doing the domestic type of work?
How many of you ladies would like to go down sewers to clean them out?
How many of you ladies would like to work on the coal face of a mine(think about your nails
)?
I know that my wife and I prefer the two different type of roles, ie, I do the heavy type of work and she does the homely type of work, mind you we are from the older generation and prefer our stereotype roles.
I prefer to treat a lady as a lady not a female type of the male species.
I'm pretty sure very few, if any, of the men who work for me would like to go doen either sewers or coal mines. In thinking about what tasks women and men can do is it not more helpful to agree that the strongest men are stronger than many women, but the strongest women are stronger than quite a few men? Personally I think its sad that anyone spends their career training for combat, but would defend anyone's right to do so.
When I was growing up my dad didn't lift a finger around the house - that was mum's job and he was the breadwinner. He come every night to house with welcoming lights on and a nice meal shopped for and prepared by my mum, who also made sure he had freshly ironed shirts and brought up 3 kids, whilst also doing voluntary work. I now have a job in which I work longer hours than he did, and have no-one to cook, clean, shop etc. I do it all. I also managed to work out how to use a power drill. I think my dad had it easy. When he retired he still did nothing in the house.
Of course the consequence is that since my mum died he is incapable of cooking for himself and his diet is the 3 things he's worked out how to heat up.
A friend's mum, when widowed, had never written a cheque and didn't know how her central heating worked.
Surely it makes sense for both sexes to learn how to do as much as possible?