Re: when is a will not a will
It's a difficult one without knowing the people involved and all the facts.
There is probably a lot more to it than we know.
I do think however, that we must be allowed to leave our 'estate' to whoever we wish. Even if this is done out of spite, sadly, it is still the deceased's wishes.
Some relatives only pop up when there is a will to be read, although I am NOT saying that was the case here, as I simply don't know enough about it.
I do know however, that when I complete my revised will, which I am considering carefully at the moment, that I will come back and haunt anyone who tries to disregard my wishes!