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19-07-2018, 03:21 PM
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Re: Why can't "some" people,

Originally Posted by Tiffany ->
Glad you've found you.
My parents were never like that to me or my brother, they let us do our own thing & learn from our own mistakes.
I did the same with my son,back in my day,we weren't aloud to express feelings in our family, i made sure my son could,i think that is why he is well balanced, ..without being able to express emotions, it can do a lot of damage,..maybe this thread is in the wrong place,private maybe?
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19-07-2018, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3 ->
No,I'm not saying any of that,if you read Tiffany reply,you may get a better understanding, ...it's about people moulding you,to be how they want you to be,to suit their needs,sorry i didn't make myself clear.
Yes, sorry, I didn't realise you meant "some parents"... I'm having a
not-very- bright day today...
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19-07-2018, 05:16 PM
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Re: Why can't "some" people,

I only offer advice to my children if asked for it, an interfering parent is not pleasant.
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19-07-2018, 08:44 PM
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Re: Why can't "some" people,

Mine works the exact opposite....my son is always trying to mold me to be who he wants me to be.

He has his own business, so he is very bossy and that really bugs me....grrrrrr,snarrrrl$#&@$^&
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19-07-2018, 08:49 PM
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Re: Why can't "some" people,

Sometimes there is too much communication, and exclusion zones need to be implemented.
 
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