Re: Why did you have children?
I decided not to have children because i wanted the whole package for my child - a loving environment which had to include grandparents it was a must. I could not offer that to a child and until I finally broke free at age 44 - up to then I was in no shape mentally to bring a child into the world, it was too late, my health took its toll from all the stress.Re: Why did you have children?
Never managed to have our own live children but we ended up taking in our niece and nephews from my sisters when they went off the radar and left them, when my youngest sister turned up on her first boys birthday (he was 4) we thought she just might want to take him back but she arrived with a 4 week old baby in her arms and simply said here's another one for you ! Seems I had the maternal feelings and my husband is a saint but my sisters completely missed that feeling but were unable to stop themselves having children.
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