Re: In the eye of the beholder...
Originally Posted by
Annie Jack
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Finding your partner attractive goes beyond physical attributes, am I right? My OH once told me that his last partner got turned on if she caught him doing the dishes.
Well I washed an awful lot of dishes last Sunday, all I got was a shout from the living room, "Are yeh not finished yet?"
I remember an old calypso song with the words "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife.", there may be some truth in that, when I was a youth and went dancing at the weekend with the rest of the lads we would be terrified to ask the good looking girls up to dance, not that there was a awful lot of them mind you, only the toughest of lads in the dance hall would have the nerve to ask them, maybe the poor girls were afraid to refuse on account of the toughies reputation in the area. I would imagine if a fella married a real stunner her would have his hands full hanging on to her, and who want's that kind of hassle all the time, of course we all married lovely girls, but you know what I mean.
I love a good sense of humour in a girl, truthfulness, good with children and the ability to hold a few drinks on special occasions without making a holy show of herself, as I've seen a lot of women do. Meanness and a bossy nature were always a big turn off for me, otherwise I don't mind what the ladies look like.