Re: Cruel
The local homes round here that do the three week no visitors do seem to have a happier outcome than the ones that don't, it's just to let them settle and think of the place as their home. Alzheimer's is a cruel disease, sometimes I'm afraid to help the surrenders you do have to appear to be cruel to help them understand.Re: Cruel
Re: Cruel
As I have said before, my husband would have put me in a home if I had suffered from brain damage as he has, there is no way he would have coped with me, that is not in his remit. So if I have to put him in a home, should he get dementia, I would have no hesitation in doing so, having done my bit for 11 years, so far.Re: Cruel
I know no one knows the full circumstances,but to put my friend in this home with no warning ,no chance to say goodbye and not have visitors for 3 weeks is very harsh.True my friend was a bit 'forgetful' and sometimes said silly things, but she loved 'coffee mornings weekly 'coming along on her own,went to a womans house for years to have her hair washed & set every 2 weeks, she would call in on another friend after this for coffee but make her way home in time for 'Lose Women', she also sat in the park in good weather near her house The Care hoe is not even local but quite a distance away.After the 3 weeks is over a few of us hope to hire a car and visit her, but will she remember us after being away from all /everyone she knows
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