Re: Why did you have children?
Re: Why did you have children?
I have always loved children, so does the wife and that's why we had them, I was over the moon when my daughter was born, two years later came the icing on the cake, a baby boy. We would have liked another child but sadly there were medical factors that made it too risky for my wife.Re: Why did you have children?
Good question nobaggage, I cared for my sisters from new born, loved it and always wanted children to love as my mum didn't.Re: Why did you have children?
Oh how I can relate to the OP. I never even considered having children, and luckily my husband felt the same way. He had a vasectomy quite early on and that was fine with me. Partly I was terrified of the prospect of giving birth, but also didn't want to give up our good and, yes, selfish life of holidays, cars and the little things that our pals with small children didn't have. We had a lot of criticism and snide remarks (this was the 1960s/70s) and my mother in law found it really strange too. Having said that, I can appreciate the fun and joy that children can bring - but often all I see is screaming, demanding and ill behaved nuisances taking up all their parents' time and money and running the household.Re: Why did you have children?
Re: Why did you have children?
I couldn't wait to have children - now I wish I had waited. If I had my time again, I would do things very differently and I'm not 100% sure children would figure in that; I found that the sacrfice of career and time turned out to be not worth it in my case - I rarely see my daughter (but that has its own blessings) and see my son once a week most of the time but always feel he sees it as something he has to do rather than wants to do and, in a way, I can understand that. Shame really, we were a very close family at one time.Re: Why did you have children?
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