Re: Overwhelming waves of grief.

I have no guilt about feeling glad when some people kick the bucket. I was absolutely delighted when my paternal grandmother eventually left this world, I was just sorry she hadn't died years previously. She was an evil old b*tch who had made the lives of her children and grandchildren highly unpleasant. When I was next back in my home island I danced a gig on her grave.

Re: Overwhelming waves of grief.

That seems rather childish to me.

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You hadn't met the evil old bag, you might have felt the same if you had.

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Did you have music playing while you danced?

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I dislike music.

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I would have made a ceremony of it, music, a few candles perhaps. Not that I would actually dance on someone's grave.

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Funnily enough I don't make a habit of it either. I must admit I was sorely tempted to dance on the grave of my mother, but resisted the temptation. The old girl might have popped up and asked once again where she had gone wrong with me!