23-06-2018, 06:04 PM
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When some people hurt,they lash out at others. For some reason they project their own hurt onto others. Normally this is temporary but for others it becomes a way of life. Some people always look for someone to blame for their own unhappiness. It seems easier to find fault with others than do any self reflection or take any personal responsibility for how they feel. For these people it isn’t situational but rather a way of life.People who adopt this permanent outlook are also known as TOXIC !!!
Quite often these people have narcissistic personality disorder and can’t see past their own nose.
I’ve had to deal with these type my entire life.
23-06-2018, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Bratti
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When some people hurt,they lash out at others. For some reason they project their own hurt onto others. Normally this is temporary but for others it becomes a way of life. Some people always look for someone to blame for their own unhappiness. It seems easier to find fault with others than do any self reflection or take any personal responsibility for how they feel. For these people it isn’t situational but rather a way of life. People who adopt this permanent outlook are also known as TOXIC !!!
Quite often these people have narcissistic personality disorder and can’t see past their own nose.
I’ve had to deal with these type my entire life.
Bratti. I tend to agree with you. These kind of people who can't let go are very Toxic. I had a friend about 15 years ago that still cannot let go of her pain. If she knows I am at the pub, she comes and tries to pit others against me and trying to ruin my reputation seems to be a priority of hers. I might mention that she is also a habitual liar. Guess that goes with the territory.
Both my husbands stayed friends with me and as far as I know, never said anything negative about me. When they died, they mentioned my name in a loving way on their death bed.
23-06-2018, 08:32 PM
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I felt bitter at the time my husband left for someone younger than our daughter, not his first affair. However, after the very quick divorce, initiated by me, I built a life for myself with little or no contact with my ex, he did not even want contact with his children. I have met him several times over subsequent years at family events. We are perfectly civil with each other, in fact the last time I saw him he congratulated me on the life I had created for myself. Big of him.
23-06-2018, 08:52 PM
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I think the reaction is fuelled by the fact that the other woman was someone she considered a good friend who she let into their life and home as the PA.Although probably part of a well orchestrated strategy to give her a better case in the divorce court.
23-06-2018, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Bratti
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When some people hurt,they lash out at others. For some reason they project their own hurt onto others. Normally this is temporary but for others it becomes a way of life. Some people always look for someone to blame for their own unhappiness. It seems easier to find fault with others than do any self reflection or take any personal responsibility for how they feel. For these people it isn’t situational but rather a way of life. People who adopt this permanent outlook are also known as TOXIC !!!
Quite often these people have narcissistic personality disorder and can’t see past their own nose.
I’ve had to deal with these type my entire life.
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