Re: I'm really sorry but I need to talk.
Hiya MC
- my first thoughts might sound a bit stern.... but I don't mean too... I'm not good putting thoughts down, I speak them better. So forgive my wording.
If you're feeling suicidal or feel you want to harm yourself or others - you know you have to get help immediately. If you're on medication, maybe the medication needs tweaking or a new one prescribed. If it's an ongoing condition requiring hospital treatment you know you need to contact the GP.
Right, having got that out of the way....for a start I personally think it's a good step that you're feeling bloody furious with yourself. I take that as a good sign.
It's fighting talk, which I reckon will help you in the long run to 'up' your mood and get back into coping again.
Another thing...your general health is not good at the mo. I recall you mentioned COPD somewhere.... well that won't help your mood for starters. You must feel trapped if you won't be able to go for good long walks. I know I would.
Autumn is here too and maybe affecting your chest. All this will be feeding your low mood cos it's preventing you from getting out there.
Then the dog people didn't get back to you, which probably makes you feel like you're an empty space. It's all must feel a vicious circle.
Can you relate to your therapist MC? If you feel the 'homework' isn't helping you, then you need to tell her. Perhaps CBT isn't working for you ... maybe you need to try another type of therapy - there are so many. She might be able to sort that out if you discuss it with her.
As has been said MIND or Samaritans with their phones lines or day centres for talking/doing various things/meeting others or just going there to do nothing with other people.
Do you enjoy reading or TV or something else? Has the budgie livened up a bit for you? I'm made up watching the old original Star Trek movies and The Invaders every night or any old films that are on. Takes me out of boredom, humdrum life and negative thoughts. And, if I didn't have books to read regularly or puzzles I'd go stir crazy.
I could ramble on forever trying to help in my own way.... but you must do what you really feel will help you. Whether it's trying to get yourself 'up' on your own or going back to the GP admitting you're backsliding a bit. Come on here and let rip. Like you say, we can't see you and we don't know you, it all helps. Cry lots if it helps too.
Whoever made us gave us our strengths and weakness. We aren't all the same in how we deal with these. Do what you really want to do to help you get back up there and accept it's fine if it takes a while or you need help getting there. I believe it's normal to have blips but those that cause anguish and despair or thoughts of self harm - that's different and need some sort of input from professionals.
I have to say I admire you for posting this. I wish I could open up. My insecurities rather than low mood make me clam up dreadfully. I tell no-one how I really feel in the big wide world and bottle things up. So, you're betterer than me in being open.
I wish you luck MC. You will get there.... cos you're fighting it. Just get your backside in here and tell us how you're doing ....
Oi... stop yawning!