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21-06-2018, 10:38 PM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

Originally Posted by AnnieS ->
I feel sorry for the driver too.

I like some graffiti when it is a work of art, but not meaningless scrawls.
Meaningless scrawls it is Annie.
These guys like to use their name and ‘tag’ so as to look big with friends.
Vandals and criminals and scum.
The lot of them!
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21-06-2018, 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Boozercruiser ->
Meaningless scrawls it is Annie.
These guys like to use their name and ‘tag’ so as to look big with friends.
Vandals and criminals and scum.
The lot of them!
They never murdered anyone the were young and foolish and paid the price
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21-06-2018, 11:43 PM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

Originally Posted by Boozercruiser ->
Meaningless scrawls it is Annie.
These guys like to use their name and ‘tag’ so as to look big with friends.
Vandals and criminals and scum.
The lot of them!
I've seen the type of scrawls and I don't like it either but this was a horrific tragedy especially for the driver who will have flashbacks the rest of his days.

I used to know a station manager who described to me the remnants of what where once human bodies found after a train has run into them when they have jumped. He had to pick up a head once. You also have to think of the parents who maybe didn't even know what their children were up to. You can blame them or the kids that died but I blame society for not giving them a better moral structure.
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21-06-2018, 11:57 PM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
They never murdered anyone the were young and foolish and paid the price
They certainly did Queen.
But I for one will save my sympathy for the Train Driver and the guys who had to clear the train track afterwards.
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22-06-2018, 06:48 AM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

It doesn't have to be one or the other boozy, yes a terrible situation for the train driver and the people who have to clear up after and my main concern is for them but that doesn't mean I can't feel sympathy for those lads families and regret that they died. They were daft lads and they paid the price...doesn't mean I can't feel sad for them.
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22-06-2018, 07:16 AM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

Originally Posted by summer ->
It doesn't have to be one or the other boozy, yes a terrible situation for the train driver and the people who have to clear up after and my main concern is for them but that doesn't mean I can't feel sympathy for those lads families and regret that they died. They were daft lads and they paid the price...doesn't mean I can't feel sad for them.
Summer I think that emotional words , like sad, mean different things to different people. I think it is a shame if anybody dies, because their loved ones will suffer, but I can't feel emotion for somebody I have never known.
Think of it this way. Whilst you are reading this, hundreds of people in the world will die, including young children who have never done anything wrong.... but we won't feel sad because we don't know about them.
I tend to feel sad about people that I have known, but in the case of total strangers, I just feel sorry because their families are sad.
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22-06-2018, 07:46 AM
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Hi

I sometimes come across as uncaring.

I am not, I have severe PTSD because of what I have seen in the past.

I am a hard nut, but that does not make me uncaring.

These three knew the risks and yet carried on.

They were adults, quite capable of making their own decicions.

Their choice, end of, I juat accept it.

My sympathy does not rest with them.

My sympathy is with their families, who have lost loved ones.

Tougth but get over it, it was their choice.

My big issue is with the Train Driver.

He did nothing wrong at all, yet, being a decent man, it will live with him forever,.
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22-06-2018, 10:40 AM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

Originally Posted by summer ->
It doesn't have to be one or the other boozy, yes a terrible situation for the train driver and the people who have to clear up after and my main concern is for them but that doesn't mean I can't feel sympathy for those lads families and regret that they died. They were daft lads and they paid the price...doesn't mean I can't feel sad for them.
Hi Summer.

I believe I have said before that I certainly feel sympathy for those lads families.
Obviously this is a massive traumatic experience for them.
This goes without saying.
Those lads.
I most certainly would not have wished that terrible tragedy to befall them, and I am not saying they deserved that to happen either, being struck by a train.
I just can't get any real sympathy up for them.
That's all.
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22-06-2018, 10:43 AM
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Re: A tragic accident. [Loughborough Junction deaths]

Originally Posted by swimfeeders ->
Hi

I sometimes come across as uncaring.

I am not, I have severe PTSD because of what I have seen in the past.

I am a hard nut, but that does not make me uncaring.

These three knew the risks and yet carried on.

They were adults, quite capable of making their own decicions.

Their choice, end of, I juat accept it.

My sympathy does not rest with them.

My sympathy is with their families, who have lost loved ones.

Tougth but get over it, it was their choice.

My big issue is with the Train Driver.

He did nothing wrong at all, yet, being a decent man, it will live with him forever,.


I could have written those words for myself Swim.
But you did it better.
I mean all of your post.
Not just those words in bold.
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22-06-2018, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
Well that doesn't surprise me coming from you . Have you heard of compassion? I m so glad those people's family can't see your comment.
Originally Posted by summer ->
You can still feel compassion, what these young men did or intended to do was wrong but it wasn't evil.
Originally Posted by Barry ->
I'm afraid that I feel nothing for the three dead men who knew the risks, but their families are to be pitied for being related to such idiots...
Originally Posted by tarantula ->
If any my children had behaved like that I would be heartily ashamed of them, and not felt in the least bit sorry for them.
Originally Posted by Leia ->
Not sorry that they died
Originally Posted by Purwell ->
If you play with fire, you get burned, I have no sympathy with these dopey people whatsoever.
Originally Posted by Artangel ->
I feel sad that they were lying there, dead for hours. Ok, what they were doing was a criminal act but they didn’t deserve to die.
I imagine they were very gifted and talented artists who didn’t get a chance in the cut throat world of art.

To call them ‘scum’ was despicable. They were someone’s children and hadn’t hurt or killed anyone...only themselves.

Look at the state of the man who said they were scum!
Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
I.m glad to see this post, I was despairing of human compassion
Originally Posted by Muddy ->
A disturbing lack of natural empathy or said for effect .
Either way disturbing .
Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
They never murdered anyone the were young and foolish and paid the price
Some jaw dropping posts on this thread...am I allowed to comment?
I'm with LQ and Art, Leia, Muddy, summer...all the way...

Sometimes I feel ashamed to be here.
 
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