Re: Alcoholism
Having grown up in an alcoholic house... and having a very close relative presently battling the illness, I can only offer this... there is nothing you can do. Nothing.. recovery is solely up to them.. They either want to recover, or they want to continue drinking. No amount of pleading or talking to them will help. You have to wash your hands of it and know that it's not your call. I very well know that it's very painful to watch someone you love very much continue down this path, and it's tempting to think that IF ONLY you did this or that, you could save them.. but you can't. Only they can.Re: Alcoholism
Alice I have known a number of alcoholics including one man, an accountant with a lovely wife and home who ended up homeless and walking the streets.Re: Alcoholism
Saying this is an illness is just making excuses for them, they drink because they choose to and will stop when they choose to. Rather than excusing yheir bad behaviour they need to be made to face up to their problem and to feel some sort of shame in their bad behaviour, for that's all it is, inxcusable bad behaviourRe: Alcoholism
Re: Alcoholism
Re: Alcoholism
AudreyII is right, nobody can help when alcoholism has a firm grip on a person, sometimes the person themselves can overcome it, whether through AA or rehab but the success rates even for AA are low and the risk of relapse is very high.Re: Alcoholism
my younger sister died from alcoholism, I was with her in the moments leading up to her death and it was terrible! She was in agony and could hardly breathe, it was an awful sight to witness and one I will never forget.Re: Alcoholism
Not much of a picnic for those of us watching is it.. But watch is all you can do. You can encourage them to stop, but it does no good. They have to want to. It IS a horrible disease.. I have seen my alchoholic so afaid of dying, yet unable to stop drinking. It's a rollercoaster ride that doesn't seem to end. So many new starts.. vows to quit.. stints in rehab and AA meetings.. only to have it all dashed to hell with that one drink. It's getting your hopes up over and over, only to have the same pattern return. It's better to have NO hope for them and to resign to the inevitable rather than live on that rollercoaster.
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