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This is a hard one Susan. I too would feel the same way as you do.Re: you never really know someone
What a difficult, delicate situation Susan. The man is a child abuser. The child he abused will be mentally scarred. If he wasn't caught then who would he abuse next? Your friend is obviously besotted by him. They will live a life of stigma when he is released. I would not want any involvement with a situation like that.Re: you never really know someone
Re: you never really know someone
Re: you never really know someone
If your own friendship with this man is over can you remain friends with his wife ? I would think that very difficult and it may be all you can do is tell her you will be there for her if it all goes wrong but back off from them both. It's an extremely difficult position for you to have been put in but it is possible in 2 years for the wife to have changed her mind especially if she realises she won't have the same friendships with everyone else she had before and he is unlikely to have any friends at all.Re: you never really know someone
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The blindness of some women in these situation just amazes me - think the Yorkshire Ripper's wife. I once knew a school psychologist who was found guilty of sexually abusing many boys in his care for years. His wife simply refused to believe it and stood by him after he was released from prison. How could you have any sort of relationship with someone like that.Re: you never really know someone
Nobody knows how many victims this one chap has, been sent down for one they know off , another thing you have to be carefull off , ok you don't want to know him , but your good friends of his wife , when he comes out of prison he be under the sex offenders list , soon Theres a rape in his neighbourhood first thing the police look at is the known peados in the area , he will properly be question about his wear abouts some time in his life , people arnt fools and will quickly find out he a child abuser , and he and his wife will get a very hard time , and people associated with them will also get a raw deal , people will tar one with the same brush . But as soon he released I don't know if the victim lives nearby , if so she or he might of had a I condition at crown court if he guilty of the offence he can't move back in the same area as the victim , but you be surprise how quickly the public in his area will find out what he done ,Thread Tools | |
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