A Hospital short stay.
My Mother was taken into hospital last Monday with a suspected broken hip. I packed an overnight bag for her, along with a whole month's medication which I had just got from her repeat prescription.
She was x-rayed in A&E and no breaks were found, so they kept her overnight to explore a bit more. Next day she had more x-rays and a CT scan - still nothing found, so they decided to just get the Physio to see her. Meantime, I went to put some belongings in her locker but couldn't find her medication. To cut a longer story short, it turned out it had gone - they had lost it. No explanation, no apology, they just said "Oh it must be here somewhere"! But it wasn't.
Whilst she was in there both her hearing aids were whistling so badly, she could barely make out a word being said to her, so I phoned Audiology and asked if it was possible for someone to check the aids for her while she was still in hospital. They were very good and said they could fit her in the next day if someone from the ward she was staying in rang them to arrange a time. After me having to ask her ward nurses several times if they would phone and arrange the time, it was finally done, and someone was to wheel her across there the next afternoon, Thursday. Mum was much cheered by this news.
Previous to this they had told me on the Wednesday, that nothing was broken so she could come home. I said No, she couldn't because I'd had to cancel all her carers and she couldn't just go home to an empty house with no care! The care firm have to be given 48hrs notice to restart, so the ward said they would keep her the next 48 hrs till Friday then.
I asked them if her medication had turned up and it hadn't, 4 boxes of it they had lost. I said would they replace it as this left me with nothing to give her when she got home, and they said they would.
Mum came home yesterday, Friday. I was unpacking her clothes to wash and found the medicine they sent, so was grateful for that, except whereas I had sent her in with a box of 100 paracetamol, they sent her back with a box of 32, so I wasn't pleased about that, as now she will run out before her next repeat is due.
Then I asked her how she got on at Audiology, to which she replied no one had taken her! I asked why, and she didn't know. I wasn't sure if she was confused, so rang Audiology myself to ask if she had been and they said no, she hadn't turned up, and no one had even bothered to ring them to cancel. I told them it wasn't her fault, as it was arranged for someone to accompany her. No one at her ward told me she hadn't gone, they just left me 'assuming' she had attended.
So what with not offering any reason for her severe leg pain, then having to nearly fight them to speak to the consultant, not giving her an extra blanket when she asked as she was very cold, then losing all her medication, and ignoring her appointment without any explanation, I was seriously underwhelmed by how our local hospital care has deteriorated. All this in just a 4day stay. Thank God she wasn't in for a month!