Re: Memory loss
Alice it is horrible to find a much loved family member has become a stranger .Re: Memory loss
Thank you both. Carol, his memory is failing and has been over the last year. He obviously doesn't think there's anything wrong. Thinks his memory's good! Meg, yes he'll be oblivious to what happened yesterday! I'll see how he is this morning and will pop over. I'm lucky that I work in the same hospitalRe: Memory loss
Thank you Julie. I saw my dad today and he was very subdued. Then my mum went at afternoon visiting and he was very mixed up and hiding his jacket and shoes incase anyone stole them!! Then sat at another bed with another family!! I'm just getting ready to go to evening visiting and hope I find him a bit brighter. He's getting moved to another ward tonight, so that'll confuse him even more I bet. Anyway, hopefully he'll get home soon and be in his own surroundings.Re: Memory loss
Thank you Venus. I cried all the way home from hospital tonight. My dad was very confused, left the ward and they had to look for him, so they've locked his clothes away. He thinks he's in a shop, then a restaurant. I left him totally bewildered. i tried to explain the doctor would see him in the morning and he thinks he has to buy something first! Wrote things down he could keep looking at to reassure him, but he can't keep it in. Thoughts go out to anyone who has a family member with dementia.Re: Memory loss
It may be that the confusion which your Dad has now is related to his medical condition. Dementia doesn't suddenly get so bad if the person seemed fine just before being taken ill.Re: Memory loss
Thank you Anita. Yes, having an accident and being in a hospital, in a different environment, can definitely bring confusion. I work in a ward and it's fairly common and I've seen relatives getting upset about their once upbeat mum/dad seeming really out of it. It's just horrible when it's your mum or dad. I'm sure he'll be a bit better when he gets home, but fear it's a wee bit of his dementia getting worse, which is also common after a hospital stay. So long as he is safe and happily demented is all I want. He has refused medication for his dementia because he doesn't think there's anything wrong with him. It wouldn't have taken it away, but maybe slowed it down. Anyway, things just turn out like they have to.
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