Re: Cruel
At one stage, we thought my Mum was going to need 24 hr care.
One quite posh place I went to check out, also had this rule - No visitors for 2 weeks.
I imagined if it were me. If I had been taken to a strange place, not knowing a soul there.
Strange room, strange bed, strange people around me - nothing familiar or personal to me whatsoever.
I decided that is when I would want a loving friend/family member with me more than ever.
To move me and take away everything and everybody I loved would be like torture. Then not be allowed to even see them as well . . . .
So I had my answer.
I told the Manageress - No thanks. Mum won't be coming here.