Am I being over sensitive ?
All the kids have had a patch work quilt made by me out of their more memorable clothing, patches of christening robes, school uniforms, favourite footie gear etc anything they have really enjoyed gets put into the design. I give them to them when they turn 18 and we've had some lovely birthdays remembering their favourite times.
So knowing it takes me 18 years to make them they have treasured them I thought.
Anyway today wife of eldest said she had thrown out the tatty thing, my husband asked if eldest knew she had done that but seems it was her idea he knows nothing about it yet.
I am feeling a bit angry she could do that because she does know what it is and how much as a family we love these quilts.
But it is his, when I give a present it's no longer mine and it's for him to use or do what he wants with I know.
So am I being over sensitive feeling this annoyed that she would do this ? I don't want to fall out with her over it she's a lovely young woman and I do love her, it's just this stupid situation getting to me at the moment.
So am I being silly over it getting upset ?
What can I do to stop feeling this way ?
I am not used to feeling like this it's taken me by surprise, I guess I will find a way to forgive eventually but it's eluding me at the moment.