06-04-2021, 06:14 PM
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Re: Is It Important That You Are Liked?
HiNever bothered about being liked.
Far more concerned about being good at my job.
Hated by those I have sacked, respected by those I have not and supported.
That means so much more to me than being disliked by those who where lazy or took money.
They can swan off.
I had a royal pain the bum for years.
She was however right more often than she was wrong. a very good officer and now a big boss.
She is still an arse, but deserving of her status.
I am pleased she has got there and is now annoying Politicians I dislike intensely.
06-04-2021, 06:15 PM
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Re: Is It Important That You Are Liked?
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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HiNever bothered about being liked.
Far more concerned about being good at my job.
Hated by those I have sacked, respected by those I have not and supported.
That means so much more to me than being disliked by those who where lazy or took money.
They can swan off.
I had a royal pain the bum for years.
She was however right more often than she was wrong. a very good officer and now a big boss.
She is still an arse, but deserving of her status.
I am pleased she has got there and is now annoying Politicians I dislike intensely.
06-04-2021, 06:21 PM
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Re: Is It Important That You Are Liked?
Originally Posted by Pixie Knuckles
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Oooh, anyone we know of, Swimmy?
Nope, not Cressida Dick etc.
A female man in a suit, deep background, unnoticed but lethal.
Retired for some years now, I was scary, she scared me.
06-04-2021, 09:59 PM
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Re: Is It Important That You Are Liked?
Originally Posted by Meg
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Having spent many years with a stepmother who drummed into me that there was nothing about me to like, I grew up disliking everything about myself and couldn't understand why anyone else would like me either. That has been the case most of my life, I know now that I have the love and respect of my child and grandchildren, nothing and no one else matters
It don't matter a jot whether people liked you or not.
07-04-2021, 01:56 AM
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Re: Is It Important That You Are Liked?
I believe everyone has a need for acceptance and to be liked. But you have to be likeable, yourself, in order to draw people to you. I personally would not go into a tizzy if someone didn’t like me and there are always certain people that seem to almost instinctively repel us for some unknown reason. Be yourself, love yourself and you will no doubt find yourself surrounded by similar people.
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