08-08-2014, 09:13 AM
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Re: Blokey
Originally Posted by plantman
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I think that anyone who has been in the forces would recognise what a serious matter this is and understand why she has been removed from command, which would have happened regardless of gender. This is because of the fact that the rest of the crew would have lost respect for the integrity of the commander, which is absolutely paramount for discipline and morale on the vessel.
08-08-2014, 09:39 AM
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Re: Blokey
Originally Posted by Patsy
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Don't see why having an affair should have an affect on your career status. You are still capable of doing that job - I guess in some instances, it would, depending on the career - otherwise so what - happens a lot. Its not a 'blokey' thing either .........
one reason is you could be seen to be favouring your partner over other people under your command and should the relationship break down it could create all kinds of problems.There is another aspect to this whereby officers go through something called 'positive vetting', all details of their private lives are scrutinised and romantic and sexual liaisons are taken into account because they have the potential to expose an officer to the possibility of blackmail.
Those who take command in the forces know this, it is part and parcel of their job.
and important that the rule of no contact is adhered to.
08-08-2014, 10:15 AM
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Re: Blokey
Originally Posted by spitfire
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It is generally purported that blokes screw up relationships and careers by not being able to control their carnal desires, BBC News today, Royal Navy Commander, Sarah West, removed from her post for compromising her position, whilst engaging in an alleged affair with a supporting male officer, it would seem the only differentiating factor between the sexes is, which gender instigates the Tango.
The code governs personal relationships, which are not permitted if they compromise operational effectiveness.
08-08-2014, 10:45 AM
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Re: Blokey
Originally Posted by Robert Junior
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John 8.7"Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her."
Nothing changes.
08-08-2014, 12:35 PM
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Re: Blokey
Originally Posted by Meg
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Patsy one reason is you could be seen to be favouring your partner over other people under your command and should the relationship break down it could create all kinds of problems.There is another aspect to this whereby officers go through something called 'positive vetting', all details of their private lives are scrutinised and romantic and sexual liaisons are taken into account because they have the potential to expose an officer to the possibility of blackmail.
Those who take command in the forces know this, it is part and parcel of their job.
and important that the rule of no contact is adhered to.
09-08-2014, 04:14 PM
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Re: Blokey
Originally Posted by Patsy
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Don't see why having an affair should have an affect on your career status. You are still capable of doing that job - I guess in some instances, it would, depending on the career
If she was having an affair do you think the man would be able to do that, whatever the order given
Plenty of industries where it wouldn't be so much of a problem. Real shame that a women who got to that elevated and responsible position should throw it all away.
Bit like the head of our local GP Surgery, a fantastic doctor and well respected, at age 48 had an affair with a patient, had to leave immediately, not sure if he will ever work in a GP Surgery again.
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