Muddy

The Fact that these footballers have successful careers is beside the point, in spite of there abuse at the hands of their trainer.
He was there to teach them Football,not to abuse them and threaten them,
It does have an affect on them mentally and sometimes their families if the also know about the abuse, and it often interferes with them having a fulfilling relationship with their wives /partners.

Sadly we read about some young people who have been abused actually committing suicide because they had no one to turn to.

I am a loss to understand how any man,or sometimes a women can see a child, teenager, or a baby even, as an object of sexual desire! They must know that this abuse physically harms them.

These paedophiles never choose someone their own size.
Why? I wonder! Some of them look absolutely gross.
They need a squib up their backside and lighted too.

Then see how they like that,

It's all about control, power and fear. The person who terrified me must have got a big kick out of seeing a young girl shaking with fear. He was very well known in the business world, well in with the county sportspeople, great friends with a couple of celebs, chamber of commerce etc etc so I suppose he was like most of them ... thinking he was so well known and respected that nobody could touch him or would believe allegations against him. B*****d.

I never told anybody because I was too embarrassed to talk about it.