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25-04-2020, 10:54 PM
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My first reaction to your story LQ was that this individual has a mental illness. Almost text book paranoia accompanied by a grandiose sense of entitlement. But who cares?..You still shouldn't be verbally bludgeoned like that. Things like this are hugely confronting and scary and the feelings of violation and fear can last a while. Especially when they happen in places where you least expect them and normally feel safe. You can have unwelcome flashbacks and start to feel a lot of anger as well It's all normal but it still doesn't make it OK what he did. There are maniacs all over the place but it made me angry that nobody helped you. In any event stay safe and talk to us any time. We're here for you! And may your next box of chips be the best ever!.
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26-04-2020, 08:20 AM
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I very much doubt if there was any mental illness involved.

There's a lot of really nasty people around that I suspect most of you guys never encounter.
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26-04-2020, 08:23 AM
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What an awful experience LQ I'm not sure how I would have handled it.... horrible man!! Hope karma steps in for him.
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26-04-2020, 09:51 AM
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I hope you’re feeling more relaxed today LQ, it’s surprising how instances like this can shake a person up.

Just look back on him being a very rude and ignorant man with no manners.
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26-04-2020, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted by The Artful Todger ->
I very much doubt if there was any mental illness involved.

There's a lot of really nasty people around that I suspect most of you guys never encounter.
I have always thought there are two types of mentally ill, those that are genuinely mentally ill and those that are just nut jobs.
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26-04-2020, 01:47 PM
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See it from his side.




He's an asshole and doesn't know any better.
Yep
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26-04-2020, 03:34 PM
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I am not a violent person...but for a man to speak to you like that...is humiliating..and degrading....

It would have taken me all of my strength not to have kicked him where it hurt....I know I am told to turn the other cheek...but in this instance,I don't believe I could have...

I feel hurt for you,because it has happened to me in the past..and I know how it made you feel.

You know,that you don't have the problem......he has it ......
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26-04-2020, 03:42 PM
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I hope you're feeling better today LQ.
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26-04-2020, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3 ->
I am not a violent person...but for a man to speak to you like that...is humiliating..and degrading....
It does make one wonder whether he'd have done the same to a fella. If he's crazy, then maybe. If not, then he's a coward.
 
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