Re: Only Child vs Big Family
I'm an only child and my family abounded with only children with the result that I have just one cousin left who I don't see much of as he lives in Jersey. I was also a late baby as my Mum was 39 when she had me so there was quite a generation gap when I was growing up. At that time I probably wished I had a brother or sister but it doesn't bother me now. I can choose my friends, you can't choose your family so that suits me fineRe: Only Child vs Big Family
I'm a one off. In 1945 things were very tough especially for my old man who had one hell of a job to find work, also for my mum being married to a “Germ – an” and they decided that they'd concentrate on one kid to provide the best rather than spread what little they had over more than one.Re: Only Child vs Big Family
Only child here .Re: Only Child vs Big Family
Re: Only Child vs Big Family
I was the eldest of Three (still am ) My brother is 18 months younger than me & then my sister is 10 years younger. Because of the age gap we've never been particularly close although we live within 1/2 hour walk from each other. She has not been down to our house for over 4 years now & if I want to see her I have to either go to her house or call into the shop where she works for a few minutes chat .Re: Only Child vs Big Family
Re: Only Child vs Big Family
Sounds like you're in the same position as me then Kath. Bottom of the pile. My mum went to the doc when she thought she was pregnant and the doc told her it was most likely the change of life.................After having 8 kids already, I think she knew better than he did. She left his clinic in disgust, saying, "we'll wait and see then, will we." And here I am.
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