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15-06-2017, 05:59 AM
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Just a minute whilst I get out my tube of Deep Heat so I can put some on my thumb and stick it in your eye....on second thoughts here take my handbag whilst I run in the opposite direction

Not brave but I'm not after a medal
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15-06-2017, 06:48 AM
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I once saw a man slapping his girlfriend around and when I remonstrated with him, telling him to pick on somebody his own size, he decided to pick on me.

The outcome was he stalked up to me and threw a punch at me, which I ducked.

I half turned, grabbed hold of his fisted hand, spun into an inverted turn so his arm was twisted across the front of his body and sent him into a forward whip, where he did a complete somersault and planted his face into the ground.

I then waited for the Police to arrive. There were no repercussions as the policeman decided it was self defence.
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15-06-2017, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Fogey ->
I once saw a man slapping his girlfriend around and when I remonstrated with him, telling him to pick on somebody his own size, he decided to pick on me.

The outcome was he stalked up to me and threw a punch at me, which I ducked.

I half turned, grabbed hold of his fisted hand, spun into an inverted turn so his arm was twisted across the front of his body and sent him into a forward whip, where he did a complete somersault and planted his face into the ground.

I then waited for the Police to arrive. There were no repercussions as the policeman decided it was self defence.
And they let him off with a warning?

Good for you, though.
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15-06-2017, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Tachyon ->
Self defence classes are OK in their way, but too many of the moves are stylized, as if every attacker makes the same move, and the slo-mo responses are just rendered laughable in a real situation.
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15-06-2017, 10:14 AM
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I never had to physically defend myself. In all my life I've only been threatened twice, and both times I managed to calm down the person threatening me. Don't ask me how I did that. I don't even know.
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15-06-2017, 10:23 AM
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And they let him off with a warning?

Good for you, though.
Apart from a visit to the hospital, I don't know what happened to the man. From the amount of clucking the women who were attending to him, I think he was quite seriously injured.

He was certainly unconscious for a time.
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15-06-2017, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr Ploppy ->
I never had to physically defend myself. In all my life I've only been threatened twice, and both times I managed to calm down the person threatening me. Don't ask me how I did that. I don't even know.

Well done Plops. Charm the birds out the trees you could.
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15-06-2017, 10:54 AM
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15-06-2017, 01:50 PM
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Working as a pool lifeguard has put me in some spots. The fact that I was so lean and mean looking seemed to put many off starting any trouble, but the fact I'm undoubtedly unbalanced must have played its part too .

I used to thrive on adrenalin at one time. I remember being on duty in the high chair on the pool side of a rough Welsh valley complex - torn down now. A transit van pulled up and 5 guys got out and decided to go for a swim. The rest of the pool staff knew them and buggered off - including the manager. Some of them had had a drink too. They started their antics and people had either left before hand or did then.

No doubt about it I was a raving nutter at this time being extremely fit - top runner, pretty good swimmer and also into karate. I told them off once, but was ignored. They pushed me again so I decided to confront them. My mindset was in a way as it is now in that I analyse constantly. I had also been suicidal at times in my youth and knew that being faced with death can clear the mind. So, with this approach I told them to get out - all of them.

Being face to face with 5 big guys - some of them a lot bigger than I was (me being under 10st) seems rediculous. Thing is though I didn't care if I lived or died. They must have picked up on it as they turned and left without a murmur - shit themselves in fact. I had to apologise when they left to get in their van as I felt sorry for them.

This mentality I still have. Even though I seem to love discussing all sorts of stuff in depth I know it means nothing really. When it comes down to the wire and you are staring death in the eye there is a strange lifting of spirits where your worries leave you - being quite euphoric in nature. Nothing matters but that exact moment in time. Of course some are too badly damaged and top themselves, I though used to use it as a means to an end. I still have this knowledge of course and would use it again if needs be.

So the best defence is to be bonkers .
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15-06-2017, 06:29 PM
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Just a minute whilst I get out my tube of Deep Heat...
Spray can, dear lady. This is the 21st Century.
 
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