16-07-2021, 12:05 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
Originally Posted by pauline3
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He’s a lovely very empathetic man, I know you are teasing..
16-07-2021, 12:17 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
Originally Posted by pauline3
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U G C....certain personalities in men, I react to.Especially rude, dominating and bitter men.
You I don’t react to, because you seem to be a real gentleman and I mean that...you have empathy.
You seem very tuned in to woman..imo.
Seriously though, Pauline, I did read this thread quite carefully before posting. I felt you were being treated unfairly by certain members.
As you suggested earlier, there are absolutely no conflicts in your accounts anywhere, and even after knowing you for such a short while, I believe you!
And by the way, I can assure you that Harbal's silly suggestion that I am:
...attempt[ing] to manipulate a distressed woman...
Indeed, if Harbal really believes that you are "distressed", then he should be encouraging you to take action!
As I said, write out your report/complaint, then leave it for a while. Writing it down, and talking about it here will probably make you feel a lot better.
I sure hope it has, m'dear!
16-07-2021, 12:22 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
He’s a lovely very empathetic man ...
Originally Posted by Dextrous63
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He knows it too. He ain't stupid
16-07-2021, 12:23 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
Originally Posted by UkGameCoder
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I don't know about the "lovely", but I do try to see things from various perspectives.
16-07-2021, 12:31 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
I have got such a great story about losing one's temper .. going through over 3 years of constant building works in the property next door. This actually means..The property was re built except for one wall, including a controversial extension.Then they started on the Garage Plans which encroached our land by the measurements, then an Office was built to order..Garden was raised by about 2 feet, caused us to have more water flooding in our garden...and they could now see us in our Hot Tub, if they wanted too.
When a delivery Lorry parked and blocked my Access for goods for next door. I had a smart car but no where to park..I went ballistic..builds up and then one can just explode... but I won't lose my temper because nobody has pressed my buttons..as yet....
children the playground is not here today..
..Now I am thinking the time he came around to my back garden with any warning to tell us he wanted to put up a 2 metre fence which would be on his land..but it would mean we had NO LIGHT in our kitchen...He kept on and on until I threw a bucket of cold water over him...lol
He could not believe how cross he made me....
It was over 3 years..so a lot did happen....Pauline back to your thread...hopefully...
16-07-2021, 12:35 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
Originally Posted by UkGameCoder
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Indeed, if Harbal really believes that you are "distressed", then he should be encouraging you to take action!
16-07-2021, 12:39 PM
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Re: Bus Depot.
Originally Posted by Harbal
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How am I supposed to know what action she should take?
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