11-04-2021, 07:15 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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In an ideal world I would not get annoyed by what my next door neighbour is up to.No support from the Police or the Council so we are where we are.
I am not having him dealing from my driveway, that stresses me out and stress is something I do not need at the moment.
Surely there is a UK equivalent of Crimestoppers that you can ring anonymously to report his activities?
If you and your family bombard them with this information photos etc then they surely will have to take action. it even has a 1800 number (ie free) - again, I am sure you have an equivalent:
https://crimestoppers.com.au/campaign/dob-in-a-dealer/
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11-04-2021, 07:53 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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HiOne of the great things about this Forum is that people can make valid points without being nasty or personal and you get good advice.
Some I take, other perfectly valid points I do not.
One today was about me driving again because I am legally allowed to do so.
No offence taken at all, a very good post.
I also had a very good and very relevant post by one of the Mods.
In an ideal world I would not get annoyed by what my next door neighbour is up to.
No support from the Police or the Council so we are where we are.
I am not having him dealing from my driveway, that stresses me out and stress is something I do not need at the moment.
I am not having him making life a misery for me or others.
He is not going to be dealing drugs from my property or abusing his woman in earshot.
That is not me and I have to react.
That is my choice and the way I must go to protect my own health.
I know some think this wrong, but such is life.
I will not see women or children being abused or sold drugs so they become dependant on them.
I can cope with the criticism, but I will never change.
I will always challenge these pillocks. I will never back down
It’s right it’s not fair ....I can almost hear you saying * they aren’t going to beat me* .
However you don’t it could slowly eat away at your physical and mental health.
My husband sadly past away last year I still can’t say the D word, I’ve had to make serious decisions to but I know it’s the right to do for my future.
11-04-2021, 08:17 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by Bruce
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Surely there is a UK equivalent of Crimestoppers that you can ring anonymously to report his activities?If you and your family bombard them with this information photos etc then they surely will have to take action. it even has a 1800 number (ie free) - again, I am sure you have an equivalent:
https://crimestoppers.com.au/campaign/dob-in-a-dealer/
We do have the equivalent and the Sicial Landlords are also obliged to resole issues.
It has been reported, not just by me but a number of others.
Nothing has happened.
Here in the UK we simply no longer have the Enforcement Staff available to provide a reasonable service.
Even if we did, we have a two year wait for things to come to Court.
11-04-2021, 08:52 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
I think Swim is just posting his threats, of sorting out this neighbour, out of frustration because he cannot stop the way he behaves!We have been well informed of how ill Swim is & are aware that he is probably not able to carry out these threats. Would he really put his life at risk trying to stop this neighbour?
We have probably all threatened to kill somebody who does something we don't approve of, but none of us have, so it is just a way of venting our frustration!
Swim, I remember you saying that doctors thought you probably have no more than a year to live! Perhaps your energies would be better used by proving those doctors wrong, rather than allowing this neighbour's behaviour to annoy you..... because the stress will certainly cause further damage to your heart function!
Put sound proofing on your adjoining walls and just ignore the man. It is not your job & you are certainly not able to stop his behaviour. Don't forget the more disagreements you have with this man, the more difficult it will be for Guy to live there, when the house becomes his!
After all that is why you bought that house... for Guy !
11-04-2021, 11:05 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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HiWe do have the equivalent and the Sicial Landlords are also obliged to resole issues.
It has been reported, not just by me but a number of others.
Nothing has happened.
Here in the UK we simply no longer have the Enforcement Staff available to provide a reasonable service.
Even if we did, we have a two year wait for things to come to Court.
12-04-2021, 03:26 PM
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Re: Valid Points.
HiTwink knows me so well and yes I am sounding off, that is the advantage of a forum like this, you can and it lowers your stress levels.
I have absolutely no intention of killing anyone.
I am not going to be bullied by anyone either and I am not going to move and spend thousands because of that prat.
I would have been a useless Enforcement Officer if I had backed down in the face of threats.
I am well aware of my own physical shortcomings at the moment, I have even had to buy an electric can opener.
I am still capable of dealing with him, not of breaking bones or hitting somewhere hard, that would affect me.
I would hurt myself more than him, internal bleeding.
I am not that stupid.
Skill and years of training over brute force.
I would prefer neither, to be left alone, but not my choice.
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