Re: Frozen
Originally Posted by
Patsy
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Really don't understand your point Steve - the child - if she has one, will never meet the father, let alone 'know' him ........
Don't get this line either ......
[IMG]This daft bint will not have a lasting relationship if, after TEN YEARS she didn't go ahead with a pregnancy so she's expecting some poor sod to accept this with no question?!![/IMG]
Sorry if my point was obscure but you have to live this to understand it Patsy.
I married a woman because she told me that her pregnancy was down to me.
It wasn't and in the end she admitted that she knew as much.
I started another relationship with a woman after my divorce who had a child from her former (dead) husband but no matter what I did I was never, ever allowed to act as a father to the boy because she wanted him to know his father; the man that ran off to the US and left them destitute.
From what I saw on TV this woman was complaining that after 10 years the cryogenics lab asked her what her intentions were regarding her dead husband's sperm and wanted to terminate but she wants to hang on until
she's ready and expects
another man to accept this situation without question.
My wife now has two sons from her 1st marriage, one of which accepts me and the other shows me nothing but contempt despite the fact that his father's numerous
indiscretions and failure to keep a roof over their heads - TWICE - resulted in some severe deprivations in the younger lives.
Maybe I've had very bad experiences but I've known many others who have been in the same position as I have with someone else's children to take on and I'm saying it is not easy and it is in my opinion very unfair for any woman to automatically expect any man to simply accept someone else's child! stevmk2