Re: Suffering fools
Originally Posted by
The Artful Todger
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Life is not to short to hold grudges. Do something about obtaining redress or just write them off and move on. Nor is friendship unconditional.
Friendship must always be conditional. Never trust ANYBODY completely and you'll never be disappointed.
And that's where you and me differ Todger.....
To hold grudges makes one bitter and twisted and has a greater negative effect on the grudge holder than it does on the victim of the grudge.
Obtaining Redress, writing them off and moving on could be throwing the baby out with the bathwater, consider it a learning curve about the person in question, don't expect people to always live up to your standards (or down to them) it doesn't make them a bad person.
We agree on your final point....'Never trust anyone completely' we can all be bought.....