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28-07-2021, 05:48 PM
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Re: When somebody Hurts you..friends

Originally Posted by The Artful Todger ->
Hasn't happened to us for years. Last time, over ten years past, I just got even.
You say 'Us' Does that mean you are two different people or do you share all your hurts with someone else?
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28-07-2021, 08:02 PM
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Re: When somebody Hurts you..friends

A lot would depend on how deeply I was hurt and whether or not I believed it to be intentional. A minor slight may just be thoughtlessness and can be shaken off in a heartbeat. An intentional barb needs to be investigated and reasons given - if not at the time then very soon after so it does not fester.

However - I never do 'fly off the handle' - I become very coldly polite.
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Re: When somebody Hurts you..friends

It hurts if its someone you care for though .
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Re: When somebody Hurts you..friends

Originally Posted by Muddy ->
It hurts if its someone you care for though .
Very true!
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Re: When somebody Hurts you..friends

Originally Posted by carol ->
You say 'Us' Does that mean you are two different people or do you share all your hurts with someone else?
Perhaps he was including his wife, Carol??
 
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