Re: Being liked.
It's funny how people make judgements on other folks without the slightest idea who they are. I try not to judge like that and to knowingly ignore people is hurtful and I would never do it on purpose.Re: Being liked.
Re: Being liked.
Re: Being liked.
Of course I like people to like me but like Baz if they don't and I have done nothing to make this so, I don't own it and I don't let it get me down.If I am confident I have done nothing to warrant a brush off or some other act that indicates I am in their bad books, I won't say.."Have I done something wrong?"..Unless it's a significant other of course. But sometimes it's really hard to take when you want to be accepted and somebody attacks you more than you think you deserve. You feel you may have done something wrong and you apologise but it is rejected. THat's the one that I find hard. But if I am honest with myself and I feel I have done something wrong I will broach the subject and apologise. If it's accepted..sweet. If not, I move on. If the shoe is on the other foot and I am the one who is put off by somebody who has done nothing to me, I try to own it and not blame them for my irrationality. Invariably I succeed in this thankfully.Re: Being liked.
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