12-11-2014, 06:43 PM
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Re: Is being liked and fitting in important to you?
Originally Posted by carol
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I enjoy the company of other people, so yes I like to fit in if possible. However - I'm not afraid to stand alone if an occasion warrants it. Have you got a softer side C&G? I'd love to see it.
12-11-2014, 06:47 PM
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Re: Is being liked and fitting in important to you?
Originally Posted by comeandgo
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The weird thing is that people seem to want to know me for some strange reason. On my three daily walks people like to engage me in conversation. Passing cars slow down and the occupants wave to me, many of whom I don't recognise!
12-11-2014, 07:19 PM
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Re: Is being liked and fitting in important to you?
I remember at school there were always those who wanted to be in with the "in" crowd. That was never my bag. they then go on to carry this behaviour on throughout their lives. It's almost as though they can't function on their own
Fly solo and you'll meet more friends and acquaintances on the way.
12-11-2014, 07:39 PM
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Re: Is being liked and fitting in important to you?
My parents, mother especially, was almost paranoid about what people thought of her. She worried constantly that anything I did or said would reflect badly on her.I didn't care that much and I wasn't going to conform to what she wanted. I wanted to be my own person.
I try to get on with people and it's nice to be liked, but if people don't accept or like me, it's no loss to me.
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