Re: What is your definition of love?
All these years I've still got ... not 'guilt', but I've wondered if it was strange in not feeling sorrow when my parents died - over 20 years now. I was once asked if I loved my parents, and I just replied that I regretted not having had a good relationship with them.Re: What is your definition of love?
Re: What is your definition of love?
Hopefully our kids weren't screwed up by my husband and I. They are kind enough to tell us they had a good and enjoyable childhood, and the married ones are doing an excellent job of bringing up their children. We must have got something right.Re: What is your definition of love?
I will always remember my parents with affection and love.Re: What is your definition of love?
Good post George......Re: What is your definition of love?
Re: What is your definition of love?
Michael said - Appreciate your parents. You never know what sacrifices they went through for you.Re: What is your definition of love?
I had a pretty good childhood and will always be grateful to my parents for making me the person I am. I know I never showed them how much I loved and respected them when they were alive. I know I never told them how much I owe to them. Anything good and praiseworthy about me came from them. Anything not so good about me I am responsible for. From them I got my sense of fairness and justice, from them I learned that we don't just have to accept the way things are. From them I learned the value and dignity of hard work. Most of all I learned the gentle power of a father's love and the fierce protectiveness of a mother's. If people thought me even half the man my father was, it would be an amazing compliment.Re: What is your definition of love?
Think the problem is some parents don't sacrifice though and if their selfishness extends into drink and drug taking or abuse of their children it's hard to still love them, I only came to love mine in later life as I realised they were flawed human beings who had no concept of love themselves which meant they could not show love to us girls as we grew.
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