Re: Hot and Cold People.
Met quite a few people like that during my lifetime. I think llike most, I tend to judge someone after a few meetings, and if their mood differs each time, friendly, distant, hard work! I tend to drift away from them. When I was younger I tried hard to get to know and understand such people, but now I just don't bother. I don't need people like that in my life.Re: Hot and Cold People.
After meeting a person for a few times, if they seem genuinely pleased to meet me again, and I enjoy greeting them, it is one step closer to a friendship.Re: Hot and Cold People.
Re: Hot and Cold People.
I had a so called friend, she was also a neighbour. Our kids used to play together. She got me to take her kids to school with my own & fetch them after too, never offered to do it herself, always making excuses as to why I should do it instead, Anyway she was all sweetness & light as long as you were useful to her, but once you weren't she'd drop you hard. I got wise to her in the end & soon after that, they moved to another town, where no doubt she did the same thing to others.
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