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Collusion amongst families was the norm then I suppose ... they closed ranks because of the 'shame' of a pregnancy out of wedlock ... not to mention a defence mechanism against interfering social welfare.Re: Family secrets and lies..
It is lucky for us nowadays to live in enlightened times..like you Meg, I knew of a girl at school who got pregnant and was sent away. We never saw her again either Some said the baby was her fathersRe: Family secrets and lies..
These things that people do to each other are dreadful. My mother left my Father before she realised I was on the way.She went to her Grandfahter and he arranged for me to be put into a private foster home ,i was there till I was two. My Fathjers eldest brother found out and took me to live with him. I was 9 when my Mother remarried. My mother and I never got on, she saw my father every time she looked at me. When I was 69 my stepfather rang me about a couple who were looking for me. I met them and he was my Half brother.Non of the Flannery's knew about me they lived in the same town, my cousins k didnt know I was realated to them and neither did I. I waited until my father died thinking he would come to see me, he didnt.Thats who I am, i am married to a man who cares only for himself,my children, and their children dont really give a toss. I trust no-one and dont let people get near, people like to hurt people. Just thought i would say that.I am what the Flannery's and the williams did to me.I am very bitter.Re: Family secrets and lies..
Hey Annie ... I won't say don't be bitter.Re: Family secrets and lies..
If you go back far enough, young girls were locked up in asylums because they committed the mortal sin of getting pregnant. Their babies were removed immediately after they were born and the mothers put into secure places and labelled 'fallen women'. Thank gawd we've moved on. We now live in a much more tolerant world where babies born out of wedlock is the norm and if it happens within our families, we provide support and help instead of turning our backs on them.
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