Re: Flattery will get you nowhere
Originally Posted by
carol
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Why is thinking something just as bad as speaking it out Pauline? I don't understand how it could be.
Thoughts don't hurt people's feelings or destroy their confidence but words do!!
I'm really interested in your explanation..
Thoughts are just as bad imo as speaking them out, you are hiding what you want to say, so when you told her she had only put a little weight on, you never spoke your real/ true thoughts. so really you were telling an untruth...same as I did with my friend, I’m learning not to think such thoughts,
because they aren’t nice....
You are free to behave/ speak as you choose, none of my business.
I am also free to do the same, I choose to try and banish nasty thoughts from my mind....it’s not a good thing and they can take hold.
A good example is your neighbour and the bollard you installed,I bet your thoughts about your neighbour caused you some type of anguish?......I sounded like you hated him, not good thoughts eh Carol....not good for ones health either.