Re: Mourning
I tend to agree with you Wrinkly, but also appreciate that people grieve in different ways. Those who need to know have already been told that I am not even having a funeral or any kind of memorial service - and will come back and haunt those disrespect my wishes !Re: Mourning
I think it depends where you are in life, my granddad couldn't wait to join my Nan again after she died and pined for her for the rest of his life. But he was in his late 70s and they had been married for over 50 years dependant on their love for each other through many troubled times. He was lost with out her. I am sure if he had been a young man he may have been able to move on and deal with it all better.Re: Mourning
Rather than mourn the death of our loved ones myself and my husband celebrate their life so on the anniversary of their passing we raise a glass to absent friends. It doesent matter what we are drinking mostly it seems to be tea.Re: Mourning
When I was young all the women wore black for 6 months or even a year, one lady across the street whose husband died young wore black all her life, the men used to wear a black diamond piece of cloth sewn onto their sleeve, I don't see that anymore.Re: Mourning
I don't think as many people wear black anymore these days, I don't like it at all, it really is a morbid colour to me.Re: Mourning
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