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To grieve for a long time seems a shame, why waste ones life grieving, your loved ones would not have wanted that.Re: Mourning
"To grieve for a long time seems a shame, why waste ones life grieving, your loved ones would not have wanted that."Re: Mourning
Grieving is personal and individual.. However much lip service is paid to that fact, Society still imposes it's own rules and expectations. I didn't believe that until I was widowed suddenly at age 53. I received so much sympathy and support... that is until I began dating again. Make no mistake about it... a widow is the new virgin as viewed by society. We say we want people to "go on with their lives" but that really isn't the case, especially with widows. Widowers are given a little more latitude. People seem to be more comfortable with a woman in perpetual grief than they do with a widow dating.Re: Mourning
that seems to be the case I'm sorry to say when a widow meets someone else, it doesn't seem to matter how long she's been on her own, some folk will always talk, I don't think they're of a certain age either, that kind of thing used to be blamed on the older generation not moving on and having old fashioned ideas but nowadays it appears to be frowned upon by their friends and family too in many cases.Re: Mourning
There's a beautiful poem by Mary Elizabeth Fry. The first few lines are:Re: Mourning
This one too..Re: Mourning
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