Re: Flirting - right or wrong
Re: Flirting - right or wrong
Re: Flirting - right or wrong
I think flirting means different things to women than it does to men.Re: Flirting - right or wrong
With respect David, you can either offer a shoulder to lean on - 1.e. indicate that you are willing to offer support as a friend, or you can just take your chances and flirt. Not both. The former is a signal that you can be trusted with somebody's feelings the latter is just game playing that may or may not be appropriate or wanted. To flirt after you have offered friendship is confusing and doesn't inspire trust. I suspect that's why she backed off. I'm 68 and I had a long professional career and even when I was young, I never risked flirting with anybody unless I liked them and they started it first..and I was single. These days all I can say is that I'm glad I am retired.
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