Re: Femenism
Originally Posted by
APRICOT
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I agree with all these posts , I don"t want to be a feminist, I like being treated like a woman.
I am a woman and a feminist and I don't just like being treated like a woman - I am treated like a woman, a female of the species.
I am puzzled as to why people think folks are less of a woman if they have feminist views. I am completely female
and I am also my own person in my own right. Women who stand up for their feminism are not all raving lesbians you know with shaved heads and bovver boots.
I ask and expect to be treated as a person first and foremost - what sex I am is secondary to that and I also have the right to assume that I am treated as a woman - without thinking I will only be treated like a woman if I employ feminine wiles and am not a feminist. I don't play games at it - what you see is what you get with me - if folks don't like what they see or what I am then pass on by. There is a great strength in womenfolk (always has been) and I think a simpering helpless female who wants to be treated with kid gloves to make a statement that she is a woman is a sad thing to see. Many women vastly underestimate their capabilities IMO.
I am really quite surprised at some of the posts on here. Don't forget ladies it was the feminists who fought for women to have the vote. And also don't forget that we are now educated to the level of men and not so long ago that was not the case.
In spite of being a feminist female I do have a loving partner of the male persuasion and we have been together for 48 years now. We have a partnership and it's not a matter only being a female if you want to be looked after - we look after each other. I am secure in my own skin which is a feminine one - my psyche is female, but I will certainly hold my own with any man who comes along if I think it necessary and I am not going to worry about whether he thinks I am less feminine for doing it.