Re: New old fashioned parenting
I agree, Julie, sometimes kids pester and a 'no' repeated and meant is all that's needed - all kids need boundaries and it's up to us, as adults, to set them.Re: New old fashioned parenting
I wanted to be everything my father was not with my children in my first marriage but it was a complete disaster and I still feel a failure from that experience.Re: New old fashioned parenting
Some are very demanding and precocious, quite over confident I think I would describe it as, they are right and they want what they want when they want it. It is something I won't have with mine and they luckily never really did it. I don't want to sound too draconian we have a lot of fun but they know who is in charge and how to behave nicely. Manners matter IMO.Re: New old fashioned parenting
Re: New old fashioned parenting
Our parental controls are more physical, her computer is password protected and we turn it on for her when it is her time, and she has at the moment one hour a day, we are in and out as she is on it and can look at what she has been looking at in the history. I don't really trust the parental locks we found the boys could unlock their computers rather easier than we could I tend to trust until I am proved wrong to do so, so far Grace has spent more time downloading cute animals and looking for cheetahs (think she may be a twin to Patsy ) than anything else.Re: New old fashioned parenting
I dislike precocious, spoiled children. The fault of the parents letting them away with it. They are doing them no favours whatsoever as people end up disliking them, which is a shame. If you start by saying no when they are young to take heed, then it gets much easier. I wasn't a perfect parent, but my sons were all polite and well mannered and able to fit into company. So, you do them a favour being a wee bit stricter when they are young.
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