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10-01-2016, 01:59 PM
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Re: When to say NO

Dave let her blank and ignore you till the cows come home.
Simply say no .
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10-01-2016, 02:01 PM
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Certainly NOT mean Dave...you saved your money for your own purposes NOT to be given to her and never seen again...just say NO! No more...if she has a problem with that then its her issue im afraid. But to repeatedly keep borrowing money isnt a good way to live your life.
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10-01-2016, 02:06 PM
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As I've said before, she and her family need to take responsibility for their own financial affairs.

It's NOT your problem.
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10-01-2016, 02:41 PM
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Thanks for those words of support. It doesn't stop me feeling a mean sob, but the £15.00 I have given over the past few months, only detracts from the actual reason I limit myself from spending on myself. I want to be able to pay for my ultimate disposal and perhaps leave a bob or two for them. Because I'm not sure if I don't, I could just be abandoned on some rubbish mound. Joke Friends.
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10-01-2016, 03:24 PM
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Dave you are not mean!
You need to take a good look at yourself and ask yourself why you are targeted this way.
Maybe you need to be needed?
Saying no is not always easy but it's time now...
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10-01-2016, 03:37 PM
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Thanks ruth. Probably closer to the truth of the matter in your words, than I am prepared to admit.
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10-01-2016, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Davenorave ->
Thanks for those words of support. It doesn't stop me feeling a mean sob, but the £15.00 I have given over the past few months, only detracts from the actual reason I limit myself from spending on myself. I want to be able to pay for my ultimate disposal and perhaps leave a bob or two for them. Because I'm not sure if I don't, I could just be abandoned on some rubbish mound. Joke Friends.
Why not pay into a funeral plan if you are concerned?
 
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