Re: 2017 cruise
Originally Posted by
dukeofearl
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My idea of total hell, being trapped with complete and utter snobs who consider their ambience is ruined by the "working class", while they try and act out scenarios of being "Upper Class", while in fact being nothing more than working class and stuck up.
FWIW I have never been on a cruise that has "utter snobs". As I said to Goldielocks, when choosing a cruise it is vital to pick one that suits your style and has, in the majority, the kind of people you would be happy spending time with.
This issue with a cruise, or with any holiday where lots of people are together in a confined environment, is that it only works if people respect each other and generally conform to a set of reasonable and decent behaviours. To take a cruise you have to go with that mindset, with the understanding that it's effectively a "joint" holiday and we must all play our part to make it work.
The issues I highlighted about Ventura are not "class" issues as such. It is not "snobs" vs "chavs" it is rather decent respectful people vs selfish uncaring people. Parents who let their kids run riot, no matter what their class, ruin it for everyone else.
The reason class appears to come into the equation is because people who select cheap, party animal, type holidays have certain expectations of what they can do. For example, people who go to say Ibiza for a week to "Ave it large" expect to be able to drink themselves paralytic, shout and scream to their hearts content and stay up into the small hours or right through the night to do so. That is perfectly fine for that type of holiday. It's their choice to do that.
The problem arises when cruise lines suddenly reduce their ticket prices to get "bums in cabins" and then suddenly the same people who like to "ave it large" realise that they could instead take a cruise. So they book one, and then just expect that the same set of behaviours will be ok on the ship, which of course they are not. This creates all manner of problems and really is just the tip of the iceberg.
Cruising is a community pastime. It is a collective of hopefully likeminded people who above all else, respect and care for their fellow passengers. In doing so, they create a wonderful holiday experience.
Cruising is a fantastic, even majestic way to travel. To look out over the oceans and visit different countries each day is quite an experience and being able to come home every day to your 4-5 star floating hotel with air conditioning and fantastic service is, for me, a million times better than hiring some crappy apartment with white-washed walls in sweltering heat, stuck in one place for 1-2 weeks.
There are many different cruise lines with varying levels of formality and service. This allows individuals to select one that suits them. I tend to like P&O Cruises because they fundamentally cater for the Brit market and have a reasonable blend of formality and smart casual dress codes.
It's not in any way "stuck up" or snobbish, nor is it a Club 18 party style cruise. I've met a lot of lovely people whilst cruising and made some long term friends. It is the best way to travel imo.