08-08-2020, 10:07 PM
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Re: Flirting - right or wrong
Originally Posted by Mups
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Didn't quite understand the hi-lighted bit David. Why was she upset?
May I ask what your feelings actually were?
No matter if it's too personal, just trying to understand your post.
08-08-2020, 10:20 PM
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Re: Flirting - right or wrong
Originally Posted by David P
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She asked me outright if we could become more than friends, as gently as possible I said sadly not. But I was always prepared to be a friend. She was not what she wanted. Became upset and decided to move on.
Ah, thank you for clarifying that.
I understand now.
Better to be honest, than let someone think you have feelings which you don't, just do it gently.
08-08-2020, 10:47 PM
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Re: Flirting - right or wrong
Flirting is dangerous if married or if a commitment has been made to a partner. It's often not possible to predict how far flirting will go with all the possible hurt it can cause. Best to steer clear of it.Does flirting never end no matter how old or wise we supposedly get? Thank goodness I'm past any possibility of it now.
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