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05-08-2020, 09:56 PM
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Have you ever .....

Have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don't say anything, but in your head you detach yourself from them completely.

It happened to me once a long time ago but it still hurts.

Without going into detail, have you experienced something similar?
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05-08-2020, 10:01 PM
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Re: Have you ever .....

Folks have always attached to detachable people, its happened and probably still is.
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05-08-2020, 10:03 PM
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Re: Have you ever .....

Originally Posted by Last Tango ->
Have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don't say anything, but in your head you detach yourself from them completely.

It happened to me once a long time ago but it still hurts.

Without going into detail, have you experienced something similar?
I have - and it hurts!
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05-08-2020, 10:08 PM
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Re: Have you ever .....

I have - and it hurts!

I expect, like me, there is an element of appearing to forgive but not forgetting.
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05-08-2020, 10:12 PM
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Re: Have you ever .....

Yes. It's gutting. In fact just reading your opening paragraph brought it back and a little tear bubbled.

Some things aren't shoved far enough back inside my head.
But I bounce back.
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05-08-2020, 10:22 PM
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But I bounce back.

We have to, Pesta. Otherwise, what's the alternative?
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06-08-2020, 07:49 AM
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Re: Have you ever .....

Yes, I've detached myself completely from people I've been disappointed in.

It's the only way!
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06-08-2020, 07:54 AM
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Re: Have you ever .....

Yes. Quite a few times. Happens to everybody I think.
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06-08-2020, 08:13 AM
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Yes, and I've never seen or spoken to them since. Doubt if I ever will. Some things I just can't forgive.
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06-08-2020, 08:49 AM
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yes most definitely, I was devastated and still am very sad about it. I forgive but I can never forget and all the trust went down the pan.
 
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