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I wasn’t a bad tree climber meself in my boyhood.
I would still do it, only I don't think I'd survive the embarrassment of being caught up a tree at my age.
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Same calibre as mystic Meg.
You've just removed any incentive I had to research any further.
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Good, research is for fools.
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The house I grew up in was right next to the local park. As kids, we spent hours playing there. Back then, there was a team of keepers looking after the park, whose watchful eyes we learned the skill of eluding. Not that we usually got up to anything particularly destructive, but there were certain things not allowed, and certain places out of bounds.

We probably wouldn’t have done the things not allowed, had they been permitted, nor ventured into the places out of bounds, had they been freely accessible. Had there not been rules to break, I suspect we wouldn’t have found the park nearly so interesting. Not that everything we did was in pursuit of breaking the rules; we would still have walked across the grass had there not been little cast iron plaques all over the place telling us to “Please Keep Off” it.

I loved climbing trees; I almost had a passion for it. Climbing trees was quite high up on the forbidden list, which only encouraged my enthusiasm. There was one tree, however, that I never even thought about climbing. This was the Wishing Tree, and I imagine my self-restraint was due to some sort of reverence for it. The Wishing Tree was a hawthorn with two trunks that diverged at ground level. It was said, but not necessarily believed, that if you stepped through the gap between the trunks and made a wish, it would be granted. We were always stepping through the gap -despite the act having no prohibition placed upon it- but I don’t remember our bothering much with wishes.

Although it never occurred to me to climb the Wishing Tree, it did occur to little Steve Charlesworth, who, strangely enough, never had a reputation for climbing trees. We were aimlessly hanging around the tree one day when he suddenly said he was going to climb up it. And he did. One trunk was slightly narrower and less vertical than the other, and that was the route by which he went. He shinned and clawed his way up the tree and disappeared into the canopy.

He never came back down. We shouted to him for a while, and even threw sticks up into the tree; I’m not sure why. Perhaps it was some sort of attempt to locate him, or it could even have been an attempt to dislodge him. We neither located nor dislodged him, and we never saw him again.

The Wishing Tree is still there, and it looks much the same as it did back then, over fifty years ago; although fifty years isn’t all that long to a tree. I was there a couple of years ago; it was the first time I’d been back to the park since I was a kid. It’s completely different now. There are no park keepers, no carefully tended flower beds, and no rose garden with a fountain in the middle. The band stand has been demolished and so has the pavilion that looked onto the meticulously kept bowling greens.

I doubt that I’ll go back there again; it’s saddening to see the place now, knowing what it used to be like. I would rather remember it how it was when we were kids. I still think about little Steve from time to time, and wonder what became of him.
What an excellent story!

Your penultimate paragraph puts me in mind of what used to be my local park as a child: Bowling Park in Bradford.

Like yours, it used to be a very well kept place (though no magic trees), a place for decent people to spend a warm sunny day. It even had a paddling pool and a fossilised tree trunk.

Today, however, it is a shadow of its former self. Run down, graffitied, dirty and full of rubbish despite the presence of rubbish bins. Rather like the city of Bradford in general.

Whilst much has improved in this country over my lifetime, my home town has gone completely the other way. I suppose that's because the people have retrogressed.
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It could be the result of folks being promised, and thinking they can have something for nothing.
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04-01-2021, 07:51 AM
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My park is much the same as it always was, its me whose changed.
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Certainly would not drink from the water fountain now, but, having done so 50 years or so ago probably helped the immune system.
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The house I grew up in was right next to the local park. As kids, we spent hours playing there. Back then, there was a team of keepers looking after the park, whose watchful eyes we learned the skill of eluding. Not that we usually got up to anything particularly destructive, but there were certain things not allowed, and certain places out of bounds.

We probably wouldn’t have done the things not allowed, had they been permitted, nor ventured into the places out of bounds, had they been freely accessible. Had there not been rules to break, I suspect we wouldn’t have found the park nearly so interesting. Not that everything we did was in pursuit of breaking the rules; we would still have walked across the grass had there not been little cast iron plaques all over the place telling us to “Please Keep Off” it.

I loved climbing trees; I almost had a passion for it. Climbing trees was quite high up on the forbidden list, which only encouraged my enthusiasm. There was one tree, however, that I never even thought about climbing. This was the Wishing Tree, and I imagine my self-restraint was due to some sort of reverence for it. The Wishing Tree was a hawthorn with two trunks that diverged at ground level. It was said, but not necessarily believed, that if you stepped through the gap between the trunks and made a wish, it would be granted. We were always stepping through the gap -despite the act having no prohibition placed upon it- but I don’t remember our bothering much with wishes.

Although it never occurred to me to climb the Wishing Tree, it did occur to little Steve Charlesworth, who, strangely enough, never had a reputation for climbing trees. We were aimlessly hanging around the tree one day when he suddenly said he was going to climb up it. And he did. One trunk was slightly narrower and less vertical than the other, and that was the route by which he went. He shinned and clawed his way up the tree and disappeared into the canopy.

He never came back down. We shouted to him for a while, and even threw sticks up into the tree; I’m not sure why. Perhaps it was some sort of attempt to locate him, or it could even have been an attempt to dislodge him. We neither located nor dislodged him, and we never saw him again.

The Wishing Tree is still there, and it looks much the same as it did back then, over fifty years ago; although fifty years isn’t all that long to a tree. I was there a couple of years ago; it was the first time I’d been back to the park since I was a kid. It’s completely different now. There are no park keepers, no carefully tended flower beds, and no rose garden with a fountain in the middle. The band stand has been demolished and so has the pavilion that looked onto the meticulously kept bowling greens.

I doubt that I’ll go back there again; it’s saddening to see the place now, knowing what it used to be like. I would rather remember it how it was when we were kids. I still think about little Steve from time to time, and wonder what became of him.

He never came back down, you never saw him again, why didn’t you inform the police?......that seems very strange to me reading this.

We used to climb trees,any of my mates went missing,we would have informed our mothers, like , when my mate sat on an adder and it bit him,we were playing hide and seek..over at our local common.
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Enjoyed that . A good story to retell my granchildren

I loved climbing trees , i had older brothers so was a girly tom boy , id ,love to climb again but think id get stuck or disappear
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Another good story Sir.

I was an avid tree-climber. There were a few along the edge of a field next to the local junior school, and some bigger ones alongside a high wall that was once part of the local manor house estate.

One tree adjacent to this wall had creepers growing through it, so was always known as The Creeper Tree.
The creepers were like thick ropes so they could be used to climb up or down as well as using the tree branches.

I fell out of out of said tree and broke my arm the day before I was due to start junior school, and had to learn joined up writing left handed.
When I eventually got to use my right arm again I was way behind all the other kids. To this day I blame blame falling out of that tree for my terrible handwriting.
 
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