02-07-2019, 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by susan m
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Oh I liked the video . See how the pups immediately reacted to discipline . The poor mother must have been worn out . Lovely dogs
02-07-2019, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Twink55
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I think you misunderstand. I don't consider the smack to be a punishment, but where a sharp "No" is not understood the first time, a small slap works better.Anybody who thinks you can reason with a small child is fooling themselves, because if child sees what it wants and will try to get it, especially if it is not aware that doing so could hurt more.
Personally i believe that a child learns from actions more than words.
Animals react to the tone of your voice but children often don't.
I also feel that if we treat children like precious, fragile gems, they soon learn that a telling off won't hurt.
No mother wants their child to get burned, but one day they could if you spend all your time protecting them rather than teaching them.
How many times have you said that on other threads like this one.
Why the need to constantly repeat the same old same old,it's all over the forum.
With the greatest of respect I felt a great need to deliver this on a post to you.
It sounds to me like an obsession...
02-07-2019, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3
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How many times have you said that on other threads like this one.Why the need to constantly repeat the same old same old,it's all over the forum.
With the greatest of respect I felt a great need to deliver this on a post to you.
It sounds to me like an obsession...
If you can't I will be happy to accept your apology.
02-07-2019, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Twink55
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Pauline perhaps you could tell me where you have seen me post about smacking children before? If you can't I will be happy to accept your apology.
Sorry Twink...if it ain't smacking,...its..
"Hang The Lot Of Them"...it's all over the site..same old same old.
Anyway,you carry on,..no more from me.
02-07-2019, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3
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Sorry Twink...if it ain't smacking,...its.."Hang The Lot Of Them"...it's all over the site..
Anyway,you carry on,..no more from me.
Being rude about other peoples opinions & posts is unlikely to gain you many friends on this site!
02-07-2019, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3
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Sorry Twink...if it ain't smacking,...its.."Hang The Lot Of Them"...it's all over the site..same old same old.
Anyway,you carry on,..no more from me.
Twink AFAIK has never said "Hang the lot of them "
Its really unfair when people insinuate or say outright things that are simply not true .
I also believe in CP but not in a 'hang the lot 'of them way .
But for heinous proven crimes .
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The Lee Rigby killers would be no more and Peter Sutcliffe will no longer be burdening the tax payer with his presence .
Nor do I believe in flogging for stealing a piece of bread as our resident mental health professional erroneously stated
For stealing someone's car and putting innocent people's lives at risk. Yes .
Caning - not flogging as in some places -is a quick and immediate consequence .
Its simple not rocket science .
If you don't like it don't steal .
On the same basis don't take someone's life and expect to live ..
It's really not honest to make these sweeping and untrue statements about people simply because they have a different opinion to oneself .
02-07-2019, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Muddy
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Now wait a minute Pauline this is not true .Twink AFAIK has never said "Hang the lot of them "
Its really unfair when people insinuate or say outright things that are simply not true .
I also believe in CP but not in a 'hang the lot 'of them way .
But for heinous proven crimes .
Ie
The Lee Rigby killers would be no more and Peter Sutcliffe will no longer be burdening the tax payer with his presence .
Nor do I believe in flogging for stealing a piece of bread as our resident mental health professional erroneously stated
For stealing someone's car and putting innocent people's lives at risk. Yes .
Caning - not flogging as in some places -is a quick and immediate consequence .
Its simple not rocket science .
If you don't like it don't steal .
On the same basis don't take someone's life and expect to live ..
It's really not honest to make these sweeping and untrue statements about people simply because they have a different opinion to oneself .
To be honest I do worry, when some people cannot see the difference between giving a child a slap on the hand & hanging somebody for murder!
02-07-2019, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3
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For me personally,keezoy and Annie,made some extremely valid points.They both have great insight.
When in doubt stick in an insight ?
02-07-2019, 06:47 PM
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Annie,has great insight also...they both have open minds in this discussion topic...and quite honestly I learn a lot from both of them.
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