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11-06-2021, 11:51 AM
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Why do so many members feel the need to need to hide behind another personna?

There's no need to put on a fluffy act or any other act for that matter!!

Why don't you just be yourself?
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11-06-2021, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by carol ->
Why do so many members feel the need to need to hide behind another personna?

There's no need to put on a fluffy act or any other act for that matter!!

Why don't you just be yourself?
Carol that made me laugh! That should be the title of a book "How To Act Fluffy"

or

"How To Be A Fluff"
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I am myself now, some have yet to find the real them,Carol,imo.

Some are being how others want them to be, so they get all the pats on the back and fluffy replies..fluffing themselves up.......imo.

You know....Iím popular and all that...makes em feel good about themselves.
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11-06-2021, 12:00 PM
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Re: Frequenting The Forum.

Originally Posted by carol ->
Why do so many members feel the need to need to hide behind another personna?

There's no need to put on a fluffy act or any other act for that matter!!

Why don't you just be yourself?
I am myself, this is who I am. Im kind to everyone and there is nothing false about me but if people choose to think tgat about me that's not my problem. I am my mother's daughter and I'm glad I am. She brought me up well to have compassion and be kind.

Contrary to what Pauline thinks she couldnt be more wrong, I dont need to be liked by everyone, only the people who matter to me are the ones I need in my life and if someone doesn't like me then tough yitty, who cares. I wouldnt know how to be mean if I tried.

I have cut the toxic people from my life and I surround myself by people who give out a good aura, no time in real life for negativity, it screams of jealousy to me.
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Oh and whilst I think on, if someone finds someone sickly in a forum use the block button lol
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11-06-2021, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
no it's not fake, but now everyone knows I smoke fat cigars thanks to you!!!
Really? I am a cigar smoker too and a pipe
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Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
I am myself, this is who I am. Im kind to everyone and there is nothing false about me but if people choose to think tgat about me that's not my problem. I am my mother's daughter and I'm glad I am. She brought me up well to have compassion and be kind.

Contrary to what Pauline thinks she couldnt be more wrong, I dont need to be liked by everyone, only the people who matter to me are the ones I need in my life and if someone doesn't like me then tough yitty, who cares. I wouldnt know how to be mean if I tried.

I have cut the toxic people from my life and I surround myself by people who give out a good aura, no time in real life for negativity, it screams of jealousy to me.


Where was I talking about you?

I voiced my own experience of once being an over the top fluffy person. then how I grew away from it..

I was also extremely sensitive like you....over sensitive is damaging to ones health.
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Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
Oh and whilst I think on, if someone finds someone sickly in a forum use the block button lol

Why, we are allowed to voice our opinions?

Iíve had to learn, that some opinions can be quite hurtful, I suck it up now, everyone is entitled to their opinions ,whether it hurts me or not.

Itís an opinion not to be taken personally.
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